How does one succeed in life?
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How do I study with focus and concentration and avoid distractions and procrastination?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What are your best funny dating stories?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How scientists discovered 200-million-year-old species thought to be extinct - MSN
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What’s the craziest thing you’ve heard pretending to be asleep?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Ask yourself:
What were your fantasies when you reached puberty?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What is one small habit that has transformed your life in unexpected ways?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why The Simpsons stopped producing Maude Flanders episodes?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What are 10 interesting facts about you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Who was the guy that had sex with the AIDS monkey?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Does not procrastinate.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.